About Us
Ever Accountable helps people get free from porn and other unwanted sexual behavior through the power of industry-standard accountability. Instead of relying on filters or restrictions alone, we create transparency with a trusted accountability partner, creating true intimacy and lasting change.
For more than a decade, we’ve helped hundreds of thousands of individuals, couples, families, and organizations use accountability to overcome pornography, build trust, and develop lasting freedom. Our platform works on almost any phone, tablets, and/or computer, providing clear activity reports, customizable alerts, and privacy-conscious monitoring designed to encourage growth rather than shame.
We’re a team of designers, engineers, customer advocates, and mission-driven builders who believe lasting change happens in community. Every product decision we make is guided by a simple question: Will this help people live in the light?
Whether you’re beginning your journey, rebuilding trust in a relationship, or leading a family or organization, we’re here to help you move forward – one honest conversation at a time.
Our Team
Our Three Values
Each of our customers exemplify these values when they take action to live free from pornography. We admire that and try like crazy to live up to them too!
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We Do Our Job
It takes grit to fight porn. It isn’t the easy way, at least not in the short-term. But you are doing it!
Our job is to be your kind and competent guide. We work hard to be here for you.
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We Take the Long View
You fight porn today because you believe in better things tomorrow. You don’t sell yourself short.
We won’t sell out for short-term gains either. We will do our part to be here for you over the long-term.
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We Care
You fight porn because you care more about those you love than you do about your own comfort. We respect and admire you.
We will never take you for granted. We will go above and beyond to show our caring to you in everything we do.
Special Thanks To…
First, we give thanks to God for loving us, forgiving us when we fall, and for everything we have and are. We love You!
Thanks to our families for supporting us and giving us something to fight for. We love you!
Thanks to our competitors. While you sometimes give us heartburn, you also give us ideas and spur us on to do better than we could alone, and we love the mission you’re fighting for!
And last but not least, thanks to every person who is fighting to live a life free from pornography. You are the real hero here! We cheer you on and will help you however we possibly can!
Credits, in order of appearance:
- Tyler Patterson: founder, product designer, programmer, customer support, marketer
- Sharleen Patterson: advisor, counselor, encourager
- Dustin Davis: guidance and encouragement
- Jezriel Bajan: programmer, project manager
- Mia Bajan: customer support, QA testing
- Robbie Anderson: marketer, advisor, idea creator, advocate extraordinaire
- Matthew Cooper: marketer
- Lex Bangot: programmer
- Tom Sorenson: writer
- Katie Hulett: writer, advisor, artist
- Ashlea Patterson: executive assistant
- Catherine Tenajeros: lead engineer
- Heidi Patterson: executive assistant, writer, human resource, advisor, hiring manager
- Jaymar Somosot: systems engineer
- Aubrie Patterson: writer
- Mary Einfeldt: writer
- Amiel Barino: front end engineer
- Jonathan Woon: user interface and product designer
- Susheel Chanda: programmer
- Brian Swank: customer support, web designer
- Jacob Beck: leader, customer support, product designer, programmer
- Bobbi Rice: project manager
- Craig G: marketing input
- Michael Allen: leader, programmer, solver of impossible problems
- Alberto Cagata: tester
- Marianne Barney: executive assistant extraordinaire
- David Rhyne: product designer, Chief Product Officer, and Chief Operating Officer
- Anare Tavo: teacher, organizer
- Ricki Shields: customer support
- Micah Iverson: writer
- Jeremy Boyle, Ph.D.: recovery counselor, curriculum creator
- Josh McKee: programmer
- Brian Willoughby, Ph.D.: sexual development, associate professor Brigham Young University
- Julia Daniels: content marketing writer and strategist
- Iliesa Fonolahi: awareness and outreach
- Joseph Cañada: engineer
- Michelle Russell: operations and management
- Hans Bennion: product manager
- Carl Thomas: partnership collaboration
- Zakson Simpson: customer support advocate
- Pauline Yrasuegui: customer support advocate & AI image classifier
- Dominique Hunter: customer support advocate
- John Damulo: Quality assurance
- Greg Bainter: Recovery Group Moderator
- Rajat Mishra: Programmer
- Justin Price: Quality assurance
- Oleh Dolhov: Programmer
- Kostya Chupryna: Programmer
- Rogers Kagoda: Devops
- Luke Gifford: Marketing Director
- Paul Pasquale: data protection officer
- Richard Brown: consultant
- Danielle Yrasuegui: AI labeler
- An Nguyen: AI engineer
- Kevin Omiple: programmer
- JR Pershall: marketer
- Skip Matheny: marketing
- Beau Burgess: marketing videos
- Tony Ibraham: coach
- Austin Rohm: coach, podcast contributor
- Jay Coile: coach
- Tim Branch: marketing
- Elijah Bajan: quality assurance tester
- Michael Preston: product manager
- Sean Brennan: counseling partner
- Caitlyn Wells: social media content creator and manager
- Taylor Anderson: partnership & marketing manager
- Glicerio Jr. Tenajeros: quality assurance tester
- David Ordine: software engineering
Are you a world-class, top-performing engineer, marketer, or social media influencer? Do you want to join a team that helps people and marriages every day and has a crazy huge goal to do way more We may not have an opening at this moment, but please apply. You never know when we will be hiring! Tell us why you will do an outstanding job. Visit: everAccountable.com/careers
Everyone has questions.
We’ll do our best to answer a few of them here.
ProtectHer is an accountability app built for women. It shares a summary of your online activity with a person you choose and trust, so you are never facing an unwanted habit on your own.
It is not a surveillance tool and it is not a punishment. You pick who sees your reports, and you can see exactly what they see.
Shame and secrecy are what keep an unwanted habit in place. Knowing that someone you trust will see your activity changes the moment of temptation before it becomes a decision.
What accountability tends to bring:
- Support in the moments that are hardest to get through alone
- Honest, regular conversations instead of isolation
- Trust rebuilt gradually, with something concrete behind it
- Time and attention back for the things you actually want
Only the accountability partners you add. Nobody is assigned to you, and no report is shared with anyone you have not chosen yourself.
You can add or remove a partner at any time, and you always receive the same report they do — there is nothing shown to them that is hidden from you.
This matters more than any setting in the app. Look for someone who is:
- Supportive
- Non-judgemental
- Trustworthy
- Reliable
A good partner treats this as a process rather than a test. Someone who has been through something similar, or who simply shares your values, will find the conversations easier to start.
Reliability counts too — a partner who never opens the report is not really an accountability partner. It is worth asking someone directly whether they have the time before you add them.
ProtectHer is built on accountability first — a filter can be worked around, but knowing someone will see your activity is much harder to talk yourself out of.
Filtering is a useful supplement rather than the core of how this works. [PLACEHOLDER: confirm with ProtectHer which platforms offer filtering and whether it is included in the subscription.]
[PLACEHOLDER: confirm the supported platform list and the per-subscription device limit with ProtectHer before publishing.]
Your activity reports go to the partners you have chosen and nobody else. We do not sell your data.
[PLACEHOLDER: link the ProtectHer privacy policy and data-retention terms here once they are published.]
[PLACEHOLDER: pricing, trial length and refund terms to be confirmed with ProtectHer. The plans page is wired to the same signup flow and will need the same numbers.]
You can cancel from your account settings at any time, and your subscription runs to the end of the period you have already paid for.
[PLACEHOLDER: confirm the exact cancellation path and refund window with ProtectHer.]
What is ProtectHer?
ProtectHer is an accountability app built for women. It shares a summary of your online activity with a person you choose and trust, so you are never facing an unwanted habit on your own.
It is not a surveillance tool and it is not a punishment. You pick who sees your reports, and you can see exactly what they see.
How does accountability actually help?
Shame and secrecy are what keep an unwanted habit in place. Knowing that someone you trust will see your activity changes the moment of temptation before it becomes a decision.
What accountability tends to bring:
- Support in the moments that are hardest to get through alone
- Honest, regular conversations instead of isolation
- Trust rebuilt gradually, with something concrete behind it
- Time and attention back for the things you actually want
Who will be able to see my reports?
Only the accountability partners you add. Nobody is assigned to you, and no report is shared with anyone you have not chosen yourself.
You can add or remove a partner at any time, and you always receive the same report they do — there is nothing shown to them that is hidden from you.
How do I choose the right accountability partner?
This matters more than any setting in the app. Look for someone who is:
- Supportive
- Non-judgemental
- Trustworthy
- Reliable
A good partner treats this as a process rather than a test. Someone who has been through something similar, or who simply shares your values, will find the conversations easier to start.
Reliability counts too — a partner who never opens the report is not really an accountability partner. It is worth asking someone directly whether they have the time before you add them.
Is ProtectHer a filter, or does it block content?
ProtectHer is built on accountability first — a filter can be worked around, but knowing someone will see your activity is much harder to talk yourself out of.
Filtering is a useful supplement rather than the core of how this works. [PLACEHOLDER: confirm with ProtectHer which platforms offer filtering and whether it is included in the subscription.]
Which devices does ProtectHer cover?
[PLACEHOLDER: confirm the supported platform list and the per-subscription device limit with ProtectHer before publishing.]
Is my data private and secure?
Your activity reports go to the partners you have chosen and nobody else. We do not sell your data.
[PLACEHOLDER: link the ProtectHer privacy policy and data-retention terms here once they are published.]
What does ProtectHer cost?
[PLACEHOLDER: pricing, trial length and refund terms to be confirmed with ProtectHer. The plans page is wired to the same signup flow and will need the same numbers.]
How do I cancel?
You can cancel from your account settings at any time, and your subscription runs to the end of the period you have already paid for.
[PLACEHOLDER: confirm the exact cancellation path and refund window with ProtectHer.]